Movie Theater Etiquette: R.I.P.

movie theaters, classic movies, old moviesOn a quiet Tuesday night, in a beautifully restored “art” theater in the Philadelphia suburbs, I went to see a screening of Terry Gilliam’s 1995 science fiction film 12 Monkeys, starring Bruce Willis, Brad Pitt and Madeleine Stowe.

I was not the only one sitting in that art deco treasure of a movie house, wanting to take a second look at this complex, challenging film on the big screen. There was an audience of 50 or so others who paid their $9.50 for the privilege, even though it was readily available for $2.99 on demand or reasonably for sale or rent on DVD or Blu-ray.

It was a good thing that people still wanted to see “old” films in the theaters, and they would go out of the way to do so, I thought. In fact, this particular theater had done quite well in the past, showing Laurel and Hardy movies, Three Stooges shorts, Hitchcock classics and past summer blockbusters like Jaws and Aliens.

The composition of the audience was a generally well-balanced group of college-aged kids, young professionals, middle-aged couples, thirtysomethings and a few senior citizens.

Shortly after I nestled into my comfy seat, next to two co-workers also attending the screening, the film started. A loud rustling of a plastic bag behind me became an intermittent annoyance throughout the film, as well as the occasional tapping of feet at the back of my chair.  It was coming from two women sitting behind me. No talking, thankfully, but acts still equally verboten in movie theaters.

In addition to these aggravations were the glaring cell displays from people texting during the film. These were not as consistent, but certainly enough to divert my attention away from the screen nonetheless.

These people obviously wanted to see 12 Monkeys on the big screen, just as my friends and I did. So why were they doing this? Along with pre-film, on-screen slideshow reminders to turn off cell phones and avoid texting, several signs posted throughout the theater reminded people of proper theater etiquette. My disappointment was obviously compounded by the fact that, if you can’t watch a film in peace at 7:30 on a rainy Tuesday night in this theater, with this audience, then when and where can you?

Um, how about at a critic’s screening? I had been lucky enough to attend these from time to time in order to prepare for people coming to town for interviews. Over the last two weeks, I went to see an early showing of My Week with Marilyn so I could interview Simon Curtis, the film’s director.

The screening was taking place at 1 pm in the afternoon. Perfect, I thought. No zoo-like atmosphere, like those you can encounter at the nighttime screenings. I often avoid nighttime press screenings these days. Usually they are sponsored by local radio stations that give away tickets and branded tchotchkes to contest winners. In most cases, the recipients don’t care what movie they are seeing—they care that the movie is free. Rudeness often abounds in such situations.

So a morning or afternoon “critic’s screening” is one to relish. On this day, however, My Week with Marilyn seemed like My Year with Marilyn. But this certainly had nothing to do with the movie, which I found charming, well-acted and compelling.

In theaters with stadium seating, I try to avoid sitting in the stadium seats. I tend to sit down closer to the screen, just so I don’t have to be near people. This may seem anti-social, but the risk of being bothered is higher in the stadium-styled seats.

The movie began, and within minutes, a man wearing a baseball cap crept into the theater and took a seat in front of me. Within a few minutes more, his phone was out and he was going to town on the keyboard, the face of his cell bounding like a strobe in front of me. Now what? He subsequently put the phone down and there was peace in the world—for five minutes, until he flipped the sucker out again and began to type away like one of those secretaries in a 1950s movie set in a chaotic Manhattan office.

The practice took me out of a movie I was enjoying. I gave his seat a swift kick, hoping he would get a hint. He did, turning around in response to my not-so-kneejerk reaction—for about ten minutes. Then it was back to texting.

Egad. Recognizing it was time to make a move, I scanned the theater. Down my empty aisle I would go, sitting a row and a few seats in front of two young women who appeared enthralled with the film. Within seconds, I heard whispering—loud, disruptive whispering—followed by giggling. Surely, two young women sent to cover a film at a 1 pm screening couldn’t be conversing, could they?  They stopped, then started. Then stopped. And started again. I turned around and shushed them. They stopped. And started. Again. I glared. I glared and shushed louder—but not, I had hoped, loud enough to annoy the other people in the audience.

I tried to desperately to keep my attention pinned to the screen, saying to myself, “At least this isn’t as bad as the serial texter with the arc light in his hand.”  But their idle chit-chat and girly giggling drowned  out my rationalization.

Then—as if someone heard me from above—it got quiet. Over my left shoulder I glanced, to see that their seats were vacant. How do you spell relief? E-M-P-T-Y S-E-A-T-S. Ding-dong, they were gone.

Or so I thought. I connected back into My Week with Marilyn, mesmerized by Michelle Williams’ tour de force performance as Monroe, Kenneth Branagh’s turn as the flustered Laurence Olivier and Eddie Raymayne’s work as the likeable Colin Clark, the assistant director who befriends the trouble blonde sexpot. Perhaps it was the sudden serenity of the movie theater that added to my enjoyment of the film? Certainly, that played a part in my experience.

Then…Theyyyy’re back! The chattering began after barely twenty minutes of short-lived nirvana. And we’re not talking Kurt Cobain here. I turned around and took note of their young age. I surmised these were obviously college students, assigned to cover the movie for their school newspaper. Then I let out a big, obnoxious “shooooosh.” Damn them and damn the other people in attendance. The two looked at each other like “How dare he.” Then they snickered and chatted some more. Hey, Chatty Cathys, clip those strings!  Was I on some newfangled version of Candid Camera, I wondered?

The movie ended. Down the aisle, I noticed that the Textmaster General was gone, flew the coop.

Behind me, the two girls remained, still deep in conversation. I took inventory of what really happened with them. Let’s see:

  1. They come to a critic’s screening of a movie.
  2. They talk and laugh through the first ½ of the film.
  3. They leave for about 1/5th of the film.
  4. They return and talk some more.

Was I being overly sensitive about their behavior? Is it acceptable for people to act this way at the movie theater these days, even for a critic’s screening with maybe 20 people in the whole auditorium? Should I have joined them in their discussion and laughing, and the hell with everyone else?

As I exited the theater, a publicist asked me what I thought of the movie.

“Good movie…” I noted, as the flack scribbled down my response, “…but bad movie experience.”

The concerned PR pro looked upset. “What do you mean? Can you tell me?”

Quickly, I reiterated the sad tale of The Texter and the Yentas.

Two other members of the press corps backed me up, reporting that there was a lot of text messaging going on with the two cub reporters. I didn’t even see that go on, as I was seated in front of them. Turns out that my hunch was right—they were covering the film for their college newspaper. As for the Text Man, he was like a phantom in the night. Nobody saw him come in, nobody saw him leave. Weird. Really weird.

As the two loquacious ladies left the darkened theater to the light of the lobby, they were confronted by the public relations ace.

They were both told that texting and talking were no-nos at a press screening. “But we’re press,” one of them responded.

“Well, everyone here is press at the press screening,” the PR person responded.

The reporters smiled and giggled, then walked into the sunshine leaving me in the theater lobby, wondering.

 
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  • Dave Stewart

    Here's the thing - Those of us who want to experience a movie in a relatively quiet theatre with a relatively appreciative audience end up looking like the freaks. And for the love of god, if you're going out to chat, eat or text, why go to a movie??? The rest of us want to leave the outside world behind for 90 minutes or so, and the texters, chatters and noisy eaters are all part of that world from which we want to escape. And on a bigger scale, the way people act in a theatre reflects their general attitude towards others, unfortunately.

  • Trisha Johnston

    Thank you. Why do people go to a movie theatre, if they do not want to quietly watch the movie? One night my husband nicely asked a little boy to stop pointing his lazer light at the screen. The boy stopped, but after the movie the mother yelled at my husband for "scaring" her son!

  • Allen Hefner

    My pet peeve with movie theaters these days is watching the credits. Yes, I enjoy reading the credits. Those people worked long and hard to make a movie and they deserve to have their names on the big screen. I may also want to read who performed a particular piece of music or check out the shooting locations, and all of those details are usually at the end of the credits.

    But, as soon as THE END appears on screen, the lights come up, everyone runs out, and they start sweeping up the popcorn. Talk about distractions!

    Maybe a big screen home theater is a good investment. I must talk with my wife!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1063274681 Irv Slifkin

    Re: Credits
    On several occassions, the last five minute sof a film was disprupted by the ushers tlaking to themselves and the cleaning crew moving trashcans and whatnot towards the entrance of the auditorium. and these are the "authorities" repsonsible for keeping the audience well behaved!

  • tangomann

    People behaving as if they are watching a film at home -- in addition to talking out loud and rattling paper and plastic, we now have all the electronic gadgets which most of the public can't seem to do without, even for two hours. At current ticket prices, I have ceased going to theaters and wait to see them at home -- streaming or on DVD. And I understand that alcoholic drinks are also now available!

  • Allen Hefner

    I haven't been to one of the Movie Taverns, but they did just open one in Collegeville, PA. Have you been there yet, Irv? I understand you can order food and drinks right from your seat. I wonder how strict they are about carding the patrons.

    Next they will be offering WiFi so you can surf the web while watching the movie.

    We went to a theater about two years ago and after the first half hour, some kid pulled a fire alarm. All 24 auditoriums were evacuated. I went to the manager and got a full refund after the fire trucks left.

    I'll stay at home with a nice bottle of wine.

  • Jerseyjoe

    I'm disabled and can not sit through a movie so I must stay at home. In 2006 when this started to happen to me I was upset. I would have to wait to see the new films at home. But over the years I've purchased a very large plasma TV and I have "on demaned" etc... and I am one happy person. I might have to wait a while but it sure sounds worth it!!

  • Susan

    We go to very few movies in public theaters. Frankly, I've scared my family companions, because my outrage elevates so quickly after incurring so much abuse. When I'm trying to watch a movie, I want peace and SILENCE. Living in LA one can't help but know movie professionals. My brother is a retired grip. My sister-in-law is a hair stylist, and from a family of movie production journey people. They are wonderfully proud of their contributions to some outstanding films. I have lost my patience with rudeness in movie theaters. My husband and son rushed me out of a theater on our last visit. I got so mad at a couple of texters/talkers I threatened that if something wasn't done quickly, I was GOING TO TAKE HOSTAGES IN THE LOBBY!! I now watch most movies twice at home. Once with my chatty family in primetime hours, then again in the middle of the night. Yes, I've become overly emotional and too sensitive about rude interruptions. BUT I haven't scared anyone lately. It's a kind of shame that they won't go to movies with me, I might have made a difference. Hey Irv, want to see anything? I'm available.

  • Grand Old Movies

    I myself, and several other people I know, have stopped going to movie theaters to see new releases - they wait until they're come out on DVD - and we all have the same reason. You can't sit and quietly watch a movie in a theater nowadays. I've sat through showings where people are not only texting but are chatting on their cell phones, and no amount of 'shushing' will get them to stop. Somehow the concept of boundaries between public and private space has disappeared, and people treat movie-going like a night at home (I've also been at live theater performances where people text or let their cell phones ring). If anything kills cinema-going as we've known it, it won't be the movies, it will be the audiences.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1063274681 Irv Slifkin

    re: TAVEFRN THEATERS

    I have not gone nor do I want to. I know soemone who did and said it was an awful experience. Ordering during the film and servers brining food while the gilm is showing. I can't imagine anything more annoying--aside from talking and texting of course.

  • Don Malvasi

    The surge in during-the-film texting has especially escalated lately. Forced to attend the mixed press and public night screenings since I worlk 9 - 5, I always thought I was missing something in terms of peace and quiet skipping the more intimate press-only day screenings. Little did I know they, too, haven't been spared the senselessness....I used to let my Italian temper rise to a boil and speak out against yappers and texters but I guess age is mellowing me. You never know how nuts a counter response might be these days.

  • Susan

    If you mean me, you're right. I know in my previous note that because my husband and son carted me out of that theater when I threatened to take hostages, I was behaving in the extreme. But it was fun to see the expressions on the faces of those texting talkers. For a millisecond they showed concern. I can only hope it was for their safety, although it was likely pity for my companions. Too bad, they laughed all the way home, and so did I.

  • Don Malvasi

    No, Susan, wasn't talking about you but rather my own peevishness in no longer having your kind of courage (?) to wail on impolite transgressors like I once did. Too many guns and knives rear their ugly heads in a city like ours just when you aren't expecting them. Instead I just sulk at a world gone to seed and fantasize how many diffferent ways I'd break their necks in a better world.

  • Tom

    Why even bother going to a theater?

  • Warren Gumeson

    Hearing loss keeps me out of theaters, and I judge that's not such a bad thing, given what I have read here. But does anyone else remember a novelty song from the 40s or 50s with the chorus "Rattle rattle rattle, popcorn sack"?

  • Curt

    Welcome to modern America, where the culture is low and the noise level is high. I work at a small college and I can't tell you how many times I'm walking down a path and a young girl, nose and eyes glued to whatever gadget she happens to be texting on, nearly collides with me until I call out "We're gonna crash!" Or a young boy comes within inches of me on his bike or skateboard. And it's by no means just the young, Americans of all ages have become inconsiderate and self-absorbed. As for movies, I don't go to them anymore, I've just given up. Listen to me. There's a song by veteran rocker Ian Hunter that sums up the place that I've arrived. "I Am What I Hated When I Was Young." It's come to this.

  • Classic Movie Lover

    I gave up on movie theaters when I went to see Cape Fear (Robert DeNiro version) The people that sat in front of my sister and me were worse than Max Cady!

    Therefore, I just wait 4 to 6 months for the movie to come out on DVD and I can watch the movie in peace.

    Recently, I invested in a 55" LED Smart TV and a top of the line Blu-ray player and surround sound system. I am in heaven on movie nights.

    Popcorn, chocolate raisins, soda and me make for a blissful movie night for thee. :-)

    Note that I have found out that some movies are being released via streaming the same day that it is released in the theaters.

  • Larry Cole

    The texting is new, but the noise is not. I remember sitting in a crying room, remember those places that people with their babies could watch a movie without annoying people with their crying babies? Anyway I decided to check out the crying room when the noise in the theater was getting so bad. Guess what? No babies. It was quiet. I decided that was a better place to watch a movie quietly.

  • Marcb

    Amen to this article. When my wife & I go to a movie we even sit a seat apart so one doesn't bump the others arm by accident and bring you back to reality. Where's Miss Manners when we need her?

  • Pat King

    I too have eschewed going to the theater. When ticket prices rose above the cost of a meal I quit going. Then came one I wanted to see in a theater setting. There were a number of kids there and the noise was unbelievable. Add that to the little moron with his feet on the back of my seat kicking and visibly moving my back. He was imperious to evil eye stares. I moved but the din was still insufferable. Never again! The DVD in my home is for me. Sadly, the human race has no respect or manners now. Rude & crude is the order of the day. :(

  • Chuck Millstein

    Too true. And as I get older, the ability to "Pause" the film and hit the john at MY convenience almost makes up for losing the "surround" experience- especially when the smallest soda size is measured by the gallon- and you can't really have the whole movie experience without the giant pop-corn. It's like going to a real ball game and not getting a hot dog.

  • Fred buschbaum

    I agree with all the above.... With age, I patiently wait until a great flick is available in store or on pay per view. However, some of the new 3-D flicks need to be seen on the big screen. Luckily, I live in a "small" town area, Where Weekday afternoons We can usually sit in peace and quiet at a mall theater with a scant dozen others and watch a film without desterbances. I pity those of us where this is not possible. Most of my favorites are so old, we'll never see them on tv, or satillite anymore. Perhaps, when there are enough quality 3-D films out there we'll get a 3-D Tv........

  • Groover

    What this essay's writer bemoans is not the loss of being able to watch a film in peace but the fact that the rich experience of going to a movie theater is gone, possibly forever. There was a time, some of us can recollect, when attending a movie was a special treat for which people often reserved seats in advance, dressed up and behaved respectfully of one another. That time has fallen by the wayside; movies are now mostly abominable, audiences are made up of rowdy malodorous clods in flip flops and ushers aren't equipped to perform the duties of animal trainers. For those of us who can't bear to sit among what Trevanian terms "The Wad" in order to enjoy films there's really only one solution: a big screen TV, dvd's or streaming movies and a comfortable sofa at home. When one cannot change society he must alter his own expectations.

  • Gord Jackson

    As a retired theatre manager, I can totally empathize with all. Yes, with young audiences there has always been a certain amount of noise, especially on Friday nights when going to the movies was the meet-and-greet social event of the week for many. But the endless chatter in so-called 'adult' audiences, never mind the texting and cell-phone stuff is too much. I won't go at night as I much prefer a Monday afternoon if I can swing it because I know Monday afternoons are the slowest times of the week. But even then, there are occasions when...

    Unfortunately, the seeds of today's mess were probably first planted with the advent of commercial television. Yes, I am talking about those dreaded 'commercials' during which we talk, go to the bathroom, the frig, whatever. Still, we watched tv at home with family, all of whom were doing the same thing, including the passing of remarks about how good or bad the program was, the clothes so-and-so was wearing, etc. In time of course, television viewing was no longer an extension of the movie theatre - the reverse had come into being - the movie theatre was the extension of television viewing. And yes, the theatre owners must take their share of the blame for it because going to a theatre is no longer a relaxing experience. We have commercials for this, promos for that, endless loud, mostly 'blow 'em up real good' trailers - in short, the so-called 'movie going experience' is now nothing more than a Barnum and Bailey three-ring circus complete with over-priced junk food and a huckstering midway. Indeed, with the advent of 'plexes', theatres are now mostly theme parks that also happen to show movies.

    Yes, I occasionally still go, but my attendance is rare as I prefer to stay at home and watch something in peace and quiet and not have to deal with the rude, arrogant, obtuse, obnoxious behaviour of those so in love with the 'almighty me' that no one else counts. Indeed, the yappers can't even shut up in places of worship, which to me pretty much says it all.

  • Gord Jackson

    An addendum - Groover makes a very good point about going to the movies once being a special experience. People did dress up, sometimes tickets were reserved, and the staff in theatres looked pretty spiffy in their freshly pressed shirts, box-ties, jackets, pants and shined shoes. Managers were required to be 'out on the floor' in shirt and tie (or company blazer) and the company I worked for insisted that we wear a tuxedo on the weekends. Now, everyone, managers, cashiers, floor staf, are in gawd-awful t-shirts, jeans, baggy pants and suffed (if not running) shoes. The days of 'class' are over and let's face it, if the theatre owners don't give a toss about their image, if they want their staffs to blend in with Joe and Joan teenager, then why should their audiences care either? It's all just a little too casual by half.

  • Kenneth Morgan

    Personally, I don't want complete silence when I see a movie in a theater. If a scene is funny, I'll laugh. If there's a sudden scare, I'll gasp. If the movie's good at the end, I'll applaud. One of my favorite movie experiences was watching "Return of the Jedi", when the whole audience cheered Vader tossing the Emperor.

    That said, I agree that there's a difference between good theater noise and bad. Texting or nattering in a theater is certainly bad and distracts others. That sort of activity is disrespectful and shouldn't happen. That said, I wouldn't pop my cork over it.

    Hey, even the cast of MST3K have said that that sort of chatter in a theater isn't right.

  • M. L. Wirick

    When I was younger, ushers told you to be quiet. After a certain amount of warnings, if you weren't quite, you were asked to leave. They don't do this anymore. They don't dress up for church or flying nowdays either.

  • William Sommerwerck

    You need to stand at the front of the auditorium, and in a loud voice announce that if the audience doesn't stop talking, texting, etc, you will ruin their "pleasure" (such as it is), as they are ruining yours.

    You might consider carrying an air horn into the theater, should it be needed.

  • Chuck Rodriguez

    When I was a kid I used to live a block away from a theatre that had one screen and charged $1.00. Walking to the theatre every weekend with my mom was something I always looked forward to and eventually fueled my current love of the theatre experience and movies in general.

    This article hits the nail right on the head with the lack of proper theatre etiquette and proper respect for fellow movie-goers in today's society. I, like many, have a home-theatre but nothing can compare to seeing a film on the big screen. There is something magical about that experience that gets lost in the soft glow of cell-phone lights and the obnoxious chatter of people who never learned what their "inside-voice" was.

    I agree with Kenneth that I don't want complete silence at a movie. If a movie is good, there are times when certain noise is exceptable. Loud appluse, infectious laughter, terrified screams are all an excepted and welcome part of the movie-going experience. Having a conversation with the person next to you in a voice loud enough for the whole theatre to hear you, about something not even related to film you're watching no less, is not. Nor is making loud noises or silly comments, that no one but you and your sophomoric buddies think is funny, acceptable behavior as well.

    I may come off as an old grump, but I have a deep love and appreciation of movies and the movie going experience. It is because of that love that I hate to see it tarnished for others like myself. One day, my son will be old enough to go to the movies with me, and I want him to enjoy the experience as much as I did when I went with his grandmother.

  • Brian Eckler

    I gave up going to theaters to see movies years ago. I'm perfectly happy waiting for the DVD to come out. Audience behaviour is certainly one of the reasons. The other thing that drove me out was the incredibly over driven sound systems. It finally reached a point where I wore the same earplugs I used on the shooting range to avoid hearing damage.

  • MARY

    I have been sitting in the back row for years. Thank goodness I can still climb the stairs. When the day comes that I can't sit in the last row at the top, I guess I won't be able to go to the theater.

  • Steve P

    You have clearly delineated exactly why I avoid going to theaters nowadays.

    If I really must see it on the big screen, I wait until near the end of the run and go very late. Or, I wait until it hits the 2nd run theater in town. Even then, there are idiots who seem to think they are in their own living room, or playpen, or whatever.

    Theater owners are bemoaning the loss of patronage. If they'd maintain a better atmosphere (and lower the prices of their munchies to an affordable level), they'd do much better.

  • Marjorie

    We all know why there's no movie etiquette. No ushers. When I was a kid (the 80's) every theater had two kids who did NOTHING but stand in the dark recesses of the theater and watch for kids sneaking in, being noisy, throwing popcorn, etc. But the bulk of the theaters turned into mutliplexes with a few big theaters and a bunch of puny ones and projectors that run on timers and moved all their staff to the concessions counter. With no one to police them and no one for polite movie-goers to appeal to when a gentle shh or "some of us are trying to watch a movie, here" can we really be surprised that society's movie manners have been eroded?

    I also find it irritating that people attend plays in street clothes. Plays and films both rely on our ability to enter into that suspension of disbelief where we experience what we're viewing as though its time, place and circumstances are our own. Watching some ya-hoo pick at the tattered remnants of their holey blue jeans all through the first act ruins that for me. I don;t mind enthusiasm for a film's up and downs, but it has to be appropriate.

    The theaters charge us enough to see a film, but they've ceased to protect our right to get what we paid for (an enjoyable movie theater experience) so when people like Brian and I opt to take ourselves out of their client base then have no one to blame but themselves.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kenneth.m.henderson Kenneth Henderson

    Without going into examples and other details, many of the negative aspects you have all spoken about, whether on the street, on a campus grounds or in a moviehouse all ring true in that other great English speaking country, Australia.

    Incidently, you nearly lost Obama recently. Our atheist lady Prime Minister latched on to him like he was God during his whirlwind visit. The press made hay with these antics. She does have a guy though and not married.

  • Tom K.

    At a matinee for the newly released " Night of the Living Dead " some years ago there were two loudmouthed knuckleheads that would not be quiet. They were roundly shushed by the audience several times: they would not stop talking. Two large framed men got up, grabbed the rude talkers, escorted them to the fire exit and threw the louts outside. The audience applauded this smooth move and we all enjoyed the film, quietly. Let's start an old trend, again !

  • Brad

    We have one of the "Movie Taverns" in Oklahoma City (The Warren Theater), and only the people in the balcony can order food and drinks (including alcohol) delivered to their seats, but everyone must be 21 to enter the balcony area. However, on the rare occasion that I've viewed movies from the balcony, I haven't encountered this type of behavior as I have while viewing movies on the floor. I, too, have witnessed individuals texting, talking, and have had the back of my seat kicked several times. The sad fact is that people only think of themselves; common courtesy is not common anymore. For each of us to enjoy a film at a theater, we must endure the rude behavior of other people, and be treated with the "how dare you" attitude if we object. As much as it cost to see a movie in the theater now, it would nice to enjoy the experience. No wonder my wife and I have such a large collection of movies on disc.

  • jim

    I am in total sympathy with the various posts concerning this annoying problem. But face it, people: civilized society is coming slowly apart at the seams, and we who value such things as culture and decorum are just going to have to take it where we find it. Be thankful that DVDs, Blu-Ray, and streaming video have allowed us access to the full range of classic movies in our homes.

  • celebkiriedhel

    I heartily agree with all the comments above and the article. I stopped going to movies a while ago.

    I just wish the cineplex owners and movie makers would read threads like these to understand how they are losing their business.

  • roy levering

    Blame this all on Home Video. People used to understand that being in a theater meant sitting there for two hours uninterrupted to enjoy a movie. Now folks are used to stopping the film, talking on the phone, getting something to eat, going to the bathroom, and commenting or talking during the movie because that is the home experience regardless of whether or not you have a screening room. People have just transferred that experience to the theater.

    There are some "good" theaters around where the experience isn't that bad but they are few and far between. Those get a more adult crowd who remember what is was like to really watch a movie in a theater.

  • Colin

    Coming from Australia, we also experience this appalling lack of manners by fellow cinema goers and unfortunately we also have what is called "Gold Class" cinemas where you can purchase meals and drinks to be served during the screening at a time that suits you. This disruption is unbelievable as you have the movie soundtrack competing with the noise of clanking cutlery and plates and for this privilege we pay $25 to $30 plus the cost of the meal.
    Does anyone remember when you went to a movie then to dinner afterwards to discuss talk about the movie rather than during the screening.

  • Robert

    I live in the UK, and the "plexes" here don't seem to be any different from those mentioned in these articles, in the USA. I remember a time when cinemas showed two films, with an interval and a newsreel, when usherettes came down the aisle just before the end of the film to serve an array of ice cream or Kia-Ora Suncrush orange drinks. These picture houses, no matter how large or small, all had curtains. I miss all that, and I care not who knows it! And what do you get today? One film, no interval, no newsreel, no usherettes and no curtains! In so far as value-for-money is concerned, today's ticket prices and 1000s of times more expensive! For me, the cinema is a pleasant memory of yesteryear - not a pleasant experience today!

  • Elsando

    I agree with all the comments. Try the Dollar Theater (really $1.50) on a Friday evening! Adults and kids drifting in and out looking for a movie that catches their attention. Makes me long for the days at the DRIVE IN MOVIE! Parked on the back row - who cared what was showing?

  • Alfie

    My family has never hesitated to go straight to the manager whenever a polite request is ignored.
    After being admonished by management, the offender usually stops bad behavior. In our experience, the complaint most often submitted is people "talking out loud at the screen, as if they're sitting in front of their TVs at home." Rude, crude, ignorant, and totally unacceptable to serious movie-goers. I pity the poor manager who doesn't take care of our problems ....

  • mike mayo

    Irv,
    Here's a completely depressing thought: About 30 years ago I wrote a newspaper piece about rude behavior in movie theaters. The texting is new but everything else could have come from your experience.

  • Jon DeCles

    I can remember the advent of television, when people still applauded at the end of shows. Of course, there were ten minutes less commercials, and the commercials were at the same volume as the shows. The 'wisdom' of television writing these days is that there must not, at any time in the program, be any vital plot information because somebody might have left the room to get a beer.
    Sometimes we show dramatic works, like Greek Tragedies, on our big screen. I have become obliged to give a speech at the beginning, explaining that the purpose of theater (and movies) is catharsis, and that one has to submerge one's self in the show in order for that to happen: it is NOT Mystery Science Theater, and one is NOT supposed to sit there making rude comments or criticizing the performance while it is happening: that is for afterwards. Some people just don't get invited back.
    I remember seeing "My Fair Lady" once, life, and the woman next to me singing along.
    There are good and legitimate reasons for murder, and such murders do, I am convinced, contribute to the elevation of the gene pool.

  • Susan W.

    Here's a fond memory...My college age sister was home for Christmas break and took my younger brother and I to a "Late" 10pm showing of DUNE, a rare and special treat for us, at the Blue Ridge Cinema. While the lights were still up, we kept hearing a couple of boys beeping their (possibly new) digital watches. Low and behold, a "Dad" came from two rows back and grabbed their shoulders exclaiming, "Boys, I DON'T want to hear the watches!" Not a beep was heard for the rest of the night.

    Since 1984, when my siblings and I would attend the cinema together, my brother would always remind us before the show "I DON'T want to hear the watches!"

  • Ellie

    I wholeheartedly agree with all of the foregoing comments, as I have had similar/identical experiences myself. However, because of these comments, I have now come to realize that there ARE still some decent moviegoers left in the world. Too bad we can't all go to the movies together. Then we could be sure of finally having an enjoyable experience!

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